So my boyfriend went away for a week to Lebanon I was supposed to go visit him this weekend however he returned early. He got me some nice gifts and stuff. Anyways while he was away he let me use his cell phone since he broke mine “mistakenly” anyways I gave his # out to 3 of my friends and before returning the phone to him I cleared all the history. Anyways I guess that was a bad idea since he began asking me who called his phone and who had his # etc.
Like grow up buddy if I HAD a phone I wouldn’t have to give them your number. You know what it’s not the end of the world for people to call me. I feel like he only wants me to talk to people in our group; I don’t know if I already explained how the group works well anyways it’s kind of like a cult if you will. Once you’re accepted you can never leave, you can’t hang out with your old friends; you can’t invite your old friends to hang out with the group. Unless of course the friends are girls in that case they have to be bitches so the guys can sleep with them.
I personally am not going to put my friends to such “fuck and chuck” behavior. So I never invite them over, no worries same goes for family. Anyways so these rules only of course apply to the girls in the group. Like sometime I wish I could leave but they are all very good to me. We are all very close and it’s nice to know in such a whore country as UAE you can find true friends. All of these precautions are just to make sure people don’t think the girls in our group are whores or bitches. In UAE it’s not good to be seen out and about with lots of different people, or give your number out very often. Let’s look at it this way.
Dos and don’t for living in UAE:
Don’t give out your Phone Number a lot.
Don’t be seen hanging out with a lot of different people (especially in clubs)
Don’t look at men very much (they assume you want them)
Always wear heals and have fresh nail polish on.
Always Shave/ wax your arms
Always be completely lady like at all times.
Never make your self a drink (someone will always help a lady out)
Never got for Shisha just you and a guy (especially in Ajman [guys only take whore out for these kind of things])
Never Call a guy unless you are returning there phone call.
If a Guy Calls you late it means he’s treating you like a bitch/whore.
Always be super busy for guys, even leave half way through the date or meeting up with him.
Don’t Talk to much or give the guy much attention
If you don’t speak Arabic or are not Arabic don’t throw words like “Yallah, Wallah, Sharmoot, etc.” in sentences at random times (you look like a wanna-be and its super annoying to people who actually are Arabic).
Never drink to much alcohol while out
Never go to an After Party (they are for fucking) unless you are with some close friends.
Never have sex with them or do anything with them for a long time.
Never go over to a guys house to drink (he wants to get you drunk and fuck you)
If they call you only once in a while to hang out and you have had sex before than he only wants you over to have sex. If you are a bitch people will treat you like one so please have some respect for yourself and smarten up. FYI Local guys don’t take relationships with non-Arab women seriously so don’t go that road either.
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