Ironically enough, my week got a little bit worst yesterday while at work. The work was fine; however someone mid day hacked onto my hotmail and changed the password. No problem I went into it and I changed it back via “alternative email” easily solved, right? Well I wish is was only that simple, after getting back into my inbox again I went to delete some junk mail, then al of a sudden I was on a page I had never seen before. Apparently I now needed my parent’s permission to now access my hotmail; however I’m almost 22 years old. I don’t think I should need my parents permission do you? So I tried to access it my claiming I’m my own parent, but this didn’t work because I needed to give them a credit card number, and I was not ready to put my credit card number online. How would I say it my Visa is an Online Virgin and I plan on keeping it this way.

 

So I tried to prove I was in fact an adult after all and they required me to fax hotmail a copies of everything and details to my account. But I did not have my passport with me to fax it, so I thought I would be smart and beat the system by resetting my password again. This time I tried using my security question to reset my email’s password. However someone had changed the answer. So I reverted back to the “alternative email” as my only solution to solve my issues with my hotmail account. I clicked the button and waited for about a half an hour. After not receiving it in my inbox on my other email, I began to panic; I tried logging on again using my changed password from my first attempt of accessing my account. Usually it would bring me to that “Parental Permission” page however this time is said my password was incorrect.

 

So it seems my Tricky hacker had now changed my “alternative email” along with everything else on my account. I then discovered this hacked had gone onto my facebook changed my password on there as well and deleted my account. Unbelievable, I can’t even request a new password because my email has been hacked as well. All this time I have been logged into MSN, so I can see I’m getting email however no one is opening them. Why would someone hack my email and not read any of the emails themselves?

 

Anyways I called Microsoft support and apparently Microsoft doesn’t deal with hotmail, funny since I thought they were all the same company. They emailed me on my work email and sent me a link, after that I had to fill in a forum to file a complaint since apparently Hotmail/MSN has no customer service other than via email. After filling in and sending off the forum I decided to talk to an online help representative, Peter. Peter was also no help since he couldn’t tell me how long it would take for someone form hotmail to get back to me.

 

This morning at work I find an email from hotmail asking me to fill in another forum that basically I tell them all my account information, secret question, alternative email, any created folders, address book contact, msn contact, etc. anyways once I completed this I am still waiting on them to fix my hotmail and account so I can get my facebook back as well as everything else I was registered to that this hacker messed up.

 

Why would someone do this?

I know its a little stereo typical for a woman to be talking about her abusive boyfriend. however funny story i had no idea i was being abused until i read an article about the subject. 

So my boyfriend began of great, i actually started living with his brother him and my friend Yasmin. I suppose everyone knew he liked me so a month or so after that we began dating. everything was great, then he began checking my phone and computer, if i had called anyone he would yell at me, if i had photo’s of my X he would get upset. anyways later on he ended up breaking my phone in half and breaking my sim card so i couldnt call anyone anymore.

There have only been 3 physical incidents, the first of which i packed my things and was going to leave. but of course everyone intervened and made promises. it was nothing serious but still, so i changed the password on my laptop and when i refused to tell him (but offered to let him use it) he smashed my lag with the laptop and threw it on the ground. thank god my MacBook is fine this is an expensive machine. 

He likes to take alot of drugs and get fucked up then get angry at me for any reason he can find. i am not allowed to have my own friends i cant go out without him unless to work. he even got a job 5 minutes walk away from mine. so he can come see me on my break and lunch time.

Once he began yelling at me while i was on my lunch break. while heading back to work he followed me and refused to leave screaming at me in the hallway. only the secretary knew, i even had to ask someone to call security. 

Most of our fights are over me and the way i am. of course everything is my fault, i am not allowed to have privacy any time he even come and opens the door to the bathroom while i am using it. im in another country far away from Canada and i have no family here. i am not to sure what to do since he kinda made it so i cant have my own friends.

We rented a car together while his is being fixed and he wont let me drive it anywhere even to go get some mcdonalds. i am never given a moment alone and if i bring up something he did to upset me. he makes a fight over something.

What to do what to do???