So Currently I do in fact have a boyfriend, something you need to learn about me is I always have a boyfriend. Well mostly always I expect my men to Worship me. When I was younger I created a list of characteristics a man had to have before I would even consider dating him. Simple things like; being older than me, being taller than me, either is in university or working, has a car, etc. You get the idea, well this list has never done me wrong, and it’s true everyone has a type.

 

Well I feel everyone should have a list like this it makes dating simpler.  Like how many people do you know are dating someone or who has dated someone who isn’t up to there standards? Such as a smart university girl dating a lazy jobless man who still lives in his parents home. Yes I have seen this and in fact it ruined the girl’s life, she dropped out of university to work, because he couldn’t seem to keep a job. Years later and after one kid she finally left him because it took her that long to realize he would always be this way.

 

The fact of the matter is you must not lower your standards, think of those women who put up with there boyfriends beating on them because he is supporting them. I know a few of these to, and all I have to say is why? Why do these women put themselves in these situations? They need to be more responsible for themselves, I always have my own money and my own things and if things get bad I always have a place to stay and go for support.

 

Stop allowing yourselves to be victim, get control and get a clue. The second a man ever hits me I would leave them no questions asked. This is what makes me in control, my boyfriend worships me, and he is bought me a Porsche, he pays for the rent, the food, everything. I have a good job I am an executive and I work very hard, I save my money incase something ever happened and of course to buy things for myself every once and a while.

 

Also it is also a good idea to always keep a back up; you know what I mean; a guy who worships you from a far because you are not single. If you ever need anything the back up will jump though hoops to help you..

 

I am in my early twenties my boyfriend is also around my age, he works hard to make me happy. I do what I can to make him happy but to be honest he loves me a lot more than I love him. He wants to marry me however marriage at this point isn’t in my game plan. If only you knew how many men have asked to marry me you would be quite shocked.

 

Remember men will only respect you as much as you respect yourself.