I need some privacy, well I don’t know about you but when in a serious relationship does your partner need to know all of your secrets, your past and everything you do in 100% honestly? I don’t know maybe my past relationships worked differently since I was living in Canada. But you know like my boyfriend is always looking up dirt on me from the past, googling me, emails my old friends, talking to my family, hacking into my X-boyfriends emails. Basically I have no privacy even my laptop he searched threw and my cell phone he checks them on a regular basis.

 

He claims that there is no such thing as privacy in a relationship, but you wanna know what everything he finds out or I tell him he uses against me. Like he didn’t want me to get a credit card, anyways I’m an adult and I got a credit card with a very small amount on it. I didn’t tell him because I didn’t want him to be mad, however when I returned home on Friday with a new phone he began saying I have been taking money from someone, and I am cheating on him.

 

All of this because I got a phone, so I told him I got my salary and I put the cell phone on my credit card. Apparently he needs to be informed about any choice I make so I can seek his approval. Like maybe it’s a Canadian thing but I am a queen, and I don’t answer to anyone. Anyways so the fight escalated from there and we ended up in a fist fight, I burned him with a cigarette and he threw me against the wall, and so on and so on and so on. 

 

His older brother came in and beat him up for treating me this way, this is when I began to pack my stuff to leave. Of course he began to cry and apologies, please stay please stay it will never happen again. To be honest with you I have given up on trying to leave because it is pointless its better for me to stay there until I get my shit together. Like I do love him but my love is pretty much gone at this point.

 

He says I never share with him (my feelings and such) and I don’t care about him and I don’t show others that I love him. Well u want to know what I’m not that type of person I don’t worship anyone. In my life I am Number One when I get married then is when everything is his business and we then truly share a life together. But just because other girls will treat there boyfriends like Gods doesn’t mean I will.

 

Anyways do you feel that when in a relationship you must lay all you cards out on the table? Or it is normal not to share every detail of your past, present and future with your loved one?

So Currently I do in fact have a boyfriend, something you need to learn about me is I always have a boyfriend. Well mostly always I expect my men to Worship me. When I was younger I created a list of characteristics a man had to have before I would even consider dating him. Simple things like; being older than me, being taller than me, either is in university or working, has a car, etc. You get the idea, well this list has never done me wrong, and it’s true everyone has a type.

 

Well I feel everyone should have a list like this it makes dating simpler.  Like how many people do you know are dating someone or who has dated someone who isn’t up to there standards? Such as a smart university girl dating a lazy jobless man who still lives in his parents home. Yes I have seen this and in fact it ruined the girl’s life, she dropped out of university to work, because he couldn’t seem to keep a job. Years later and after one kid she finally left him because it took her that long to realize he would always be this way.

 

The fact of the matter is you must not lower your standards, think of those women who put up with there boyfriends beating on them because he is supporting them. I know a few of these to, and all I have to say is why? Why do these women put themselves in these situations? They need to be more responsible for themselves, I always have my own money and my own things and if things get bad I always have a place to stay and go for support.

 

Stop allowing yourselves to be victim, get control and get a clue. The second a man ever hits me I would leave them no questions asked. This is what makes me in control, my boyfriend worships me, and he is bought me a Porsche, he pays for the rent, the food, everything. I have a good job I am an executive and I work very hard, I save my money incase something ever happened and of course to buy things for myself every once and a while.

 

Also it is also a good idea to always keep a back up; you know what I mean; a guy who worships you from a far because you are not single. If you ever need anything the back up will jump though hoops to help you..

 

I am in my early twenties my boyfriend is also around my age, he works hard to make me happy. I do what I can to make him happy but to be honest he loves me a lot more than I love him. He wants to marry me however marriage at this point isn’t in my game plan. If only you knew how many men have asked to marry me you would be quite shocked.

 

Remember men will only respect you as much as you respect yourself.

 

 I moved to Dubai, UAE and I discovered a whole new world. now to be honest with you in the Middle East, anyone who is not an Arab is considered a whore. Yes I know sad but true, however I began to learn from the pros how to catch a man. For those of you who live in North America or Europe, you will know that yes most of the time you will pay for things when your dating a guy and of course sex is a must have in any relationship.

 

However picture this, these women here rarely have sex and never have to pay for anything. In fact they get everything paid for, from food to cloths to cars. Imagine this happening in Canada it would be a dream come true, instead of dating some old guy who probably married women here date handsome and successful men there own age. The men here worship there women, at first I couldn’t understand why, over time though I learned the secrets to achieving this.

 

Like I previously stated North American and European women usually have sex with there boyfriends before marriage. Now I’m not saying stop having sex, however don’t give it up as easy. Also minimize the amount of guy friends you have. For example, when I moved here I went out with a few friends I made mostly guys, and it was ok however I learned later that when your seen out with a different guys people begin to assume you are a whore or easy.

 

Of course everything depends on the type of guy friends you have as well, get to know there reputation before hanging out with him. It’s of course not good to be seen with a womanizer, correct? Now I have my own group of friends, I am always seen with the same people, and all my friends respect me. When I go out I never talk to anyone outside the group unless they are introduced by a friend. Some of the girls that come are whores as I stated before girls who are seen out with a lot of guys. I don’t even acknowledge them; yes I admit I become a bit of a snob when it comes to these things.

 

Here my friend’s book tables and order bottles of liquor, I never pour myself a drink someone always pours it for me. I never pay for anything either to be honest with you everyone treats me like a lady, when we are out. However when I return home I can be my relaxing friendly self again, It’s nice finally I have a great group of friends and though the ups and downs we are always there for each other.  

 

Seriously women need to learn how to act classy, then men will respect you and treat you like a queen. Whores are treated like whores, remember this.